Success is achieved through accurate efforts


Normally we tend to associate success with what we get, rather than how much effort we put in. So sometimes when things don’t turn out the way we expect them to, we tend to have negative feelings because of the thought of being unsuccessful. So we tend to stop putting in further efforts for success.

When I put in accurate efforts for the success of every task, I naturally try to do the best. Because of my own contribution, others too help me and contribute whatever they can to achieve what I set out to do. So there is success in everything. When I do the right thing, I will be able to experience constant self-progress, even if the result is not what I have expected.

Live Life to the full


Always Have A Dream




Forget about the days
when it's been cloudy,
but don't forget your hours in the sun.
Forget about the times
you've been defeated,
but don't forget the victories you've won.
Forget about the mistakes
that you can't change now,
but don't forget the lessons.
Forget about the misfortunes
you've encountered,
but don't forget the times
your luck has turned.
Forget about the days
when you've been lonely,
but don't forget the friendly smiles you've  seen.
Forget about the plans
that didn't seem to work out right,
but don't forget to always have a dream.

Author Unknown

‘solution conscious’ approach


 

A ‘solution conscious’ approach to communication, problem solving and creativity would therefore follow the pattern:
1/ Identify the problem.
2/ Be aware of it but do not over-analyse it, do not focus on it.
3/ Know what you want to achieve - your positive vision of the future: how things would be without this problem?
4/ Imagine and precisely describe this ‘ideal’ state.
5/ Compare your present situation with this desired future state: What is missing between the two? Ask yourself the question: How did we reach there? What did we do to achieve this ‘perfect’ state? Brainstorm it.
6/ Identify precisely what you need to do to reach that state.
7/ Look around you - your assets, your skills, your relationships, your personal experience and knowledge - to find what you can use to do it and write an action plan with SMART goals. SMART goals are Specific , Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Time bounded.

life is 10% what happens to me and 90 % how I react to it



ATTITUDE

The longer I live, the more I realize
the impact of attitude on life.
Attitude, to me, is more important than facts.
It is more important than the past,
than education, than money, than circumstances,
than failures, than success,
than what other people think or say or do.
It is more important than appearance,giftedness or skill.
It will make or break a company, a church, a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday
regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.

We cannot change our past…
we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude…

I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90 % how I react to it.
And so it is with you…

Magic of Smile



Smiling is contagious,
you catch it like the flu,
When someone smiled at
me today, I started smiling too.
I passed around the corner,
and someone saw my grin -
When he smiled I
realized, I'd passed it on to him.

I thought about that smile,
then I realized its worth,
A single smile, just like mine,
could travel round the earth.
So, if you feel a smile begin,
don't leave it undetected -
Let's start an epidemic quick
and get the world infected ! ! !

Author Unknown

Time



 Imagine ...
There is a bank which credits your account each morning with $86,400, carries over no balance from day to day, allows you to keep no cash balance, and every evening cancels whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day.
What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course! Well, everyone has such a bank. Its name is TIME. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft.
Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the records of the day. If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no going back. There is no drawing against the "tomorrow". You must live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!
The clock is running. Make the most of today ...
"Seize the day !"

Author Unknown

You can control your own thoughts


You cannot always control your circumstances. But you can control your own thoughts. Either good or bad, your thinking can makes it so.

Things seem to turn out best for those people who can make the best out of the way things turn out. It is not the situation, it's your reaction to the situation.

The reality of your life may result from many outside factors, none of which you can control. Your attitude, however, reflects the ways in which you elevate what is happening to you.

Life at any time can become difficult. Life at any time can become easy. It all depends upon how you adjust yourself to life.
What you see in your mind is what you get out of life.

Author Unknown

Why is peace lost in relationships?



Who are the thieves of peace?
Why is peace lost in relationships?
Complains, guilt and comparison are the main destroyers of peace. Instead of complaining, share newness. Instead of looking for someone to blame, take responsibility for improving the situation. Instead of comparing yourself to others, value the good that is in them.

You are Worthy!



Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different. Do not set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.

Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless. Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life.

Do not give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other.

Do not be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.

Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give love. The fastest way to lose love is too hold it too tightly. In addition, the best way to keep love is to give it wings.

Do not dismiss your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope; To be without hope is to be without purpose.

Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

Author Unknown

Beautiful Women




You Will!!



The odds are with you if you keep on trying.
You cannot be beaten at anything,
until you quit ... in your own mind.
There is no defeat except from within,
no really insurmountable barrier
save your own inherent weakness of purpose.
There is no failure except in no longer trying.
Consider yourself on a very long journey,
keep to your vision of success,
In the end, you can only fail if you do not try.
Winning isn't everything, but wanting to is.
If you've got the nerve to make it,
You Will!!
Victory is a road paved with perseverance.

Author Unknown